Fear of Failure: How do you deal with the fear of failure? First Section
Fear of failure is a nightmare resident in the mind of all the people, begins and ends and stand life and dreams with him, is the reason why in the mountains of stacked dreams within us waiting for the investigation for some time and will continue to the end of time you wait in vain, we all dream of and we all wish and comes to mind ambitions and build palaces for ourselves above the clouds, but we simply do not even begun in attempts to achieve any dream or incision any way, separate the radical separation between reality and dream and destroy fear in us, we are trying to bridge any time between the two.
We offer you the correct way to help them overcome failure and treatment:
1. The reality in which we live .
The reality in which we live we are superheroes and adventurers in our dreams, but we go back to reality without adventure and tournaments, the reality is devoid of speculation or possibilities of failure and carries us a choice, we all resort to the easiest and clearest and most guarantee, We do not even hesitate for a wire through even if not going as long as we've seen bears greater success rate possible, we reject the idea of failure is that the fear of failure justifies our cheese and the illusion of happiness while we are not happy with it, weave yarns illusions to be a wall not found him are based upon , always justify our weaknesses so under false pretenses and convince them because we want to believe, we want to remain in the darkness of fear of the unknown out into the light.
2. The beginning of the fear of failure.
Perhaps, our story begins with the fear of our childhood at a young age, it is the anniversary of the first failed or the first dream is lost from our hands, from the first time we wanted them something but we did not achieve the result was a disappointment, or even some of the dreams that still comes to mind even today, but we fail to achieve them again and again, As mentioned childhood if it might be one of the reasons for this is the fear that we have received the treatment failed, or the treatment of children in general in the positions of their failure, the reactions of those around them, reactions themselves and sometimes the circumstances surrounding this failure.
3. The little things that get bigger with time .
These small things that you probably do not remember when we grow despite the fact that most of them remain stuck clearly in memory, are those little things personalities unconsciously them, however each position getting the wall of fear of failure degrees inside them, treat parents and their dealings with their children's mistakes is a big difference in the life of Son and the formation of his personality and way of dealing with his mistakes in the future, including a father who is dealing violently with the Son when faulting and is this kind of the biggest mistakes sometimes, And the father had intentionally insulted son or daughter both on mistakes or embarrass them in front of other child afflicts time with the fear of failure or error so as not exposed to violence and humiliation. There are parents that supports and provides advice when faulting or Son fails and tries to put the solution is, the Son solution to the problem and communicates with him and make him feel that mistakes and failure is part of our human nature and it is not the end of the universe for us, but obstacles surpass Simply put, our mission is to stand whenever stumbled not remain close to the land despairingly.
4.Other reasons for the fear of failure.
Many other reasons may cause us fear, but do we meditate day after fear for our lives? Or is the reason for us tired of all these barriers and inhibitions that're going we do not know we are from we created ourselves because of fear? Fear makes it possible impossible and destroys our ability in us before we use, While fear of failure you simply will not do anything at all, will not provide any adventure will not try anything because you're scared and you always expect failure, if not we accept and reconciled with the existence of failure is the biggest obstacle to us, we must stand in front of the fear of failure and strongly support the idea that will help them succeed, whatever the consequences.
Be a believer in fate, promising the ball time and time again and even succeed.
5.Opportunities we are facing in our lives .
We meet in our lives a lot of opportunities that are waiting to seize and any risks by choice but simply because of our fear prefer not to take the chance of failure could be one of their ends, just remain impassive in our places without any change or progress for years or for decades and sometimes a lifetime, because we were afraid of failure whenever we run into an opportunity , And some opportunities to be a fateful and decisive if we avail ourselves the opportunity to radically changed our lives and we are in a place other than that we fall today, see what caused us to fear .. !!!!
