Drought emotional problem area for a lot of couples in the Arab and Western societies known as emotional drought as a state of stagnation and boredom that encapsulate the emotional life of the spouses. One of the main symptoms of emotional drought long silence between the couple, and the routine, words and deeds distant feelings of affection and love that are supposed to be between the couple.
What are the reasons for the emotional drought between spouses?
Emotional stinginess :
Emotional stinginess between the couple of the most reasons behind the emotional state of drought, emotional stinginess dual responsibility between the parties. It causes emotional stinginess with the pair its involvement in the work, and his interest in Ballho with friends at the expense of his wife, as well as also a way of bringing up the husband, the husband, who grew up in a dry emotional environment can not convey emotion and affection for his wife; because he grew up in the image of the cruel father and mother ordered and terminated only, there is no room for love and emotions in this method of education. When the child grows up to become a father and husband is also in the majority of cases it will be applied the way they raised it with his wife and children.
On the other hand, some wives have reasons in the case of this emotional stinginess; they only care about material things and the wife raising children, ignoring the needs of the emotional and psychological pair, which pushes the pair to stay away from his wife and direction to other methods to satisfy their needs.
Luxury and exaggerated expectations:
Before marriage have both parties expectations about the way married life between them, and sometimes exaggerates a party or both parties in the size of his expectations of the Rosary for married life, which quickly shatter on the rock of reality multi-family obligations, forcing the couple to get away from each other and forget what must be between the love and mercy of God is with them.
In addition, the well-being is one of the most common causes of emotional drought between the couple, the husband wants his wife to be a copy of the artists of attractive women you see throughout the day on television, and wife want to have her husband's version of Star Turkish soap operas in the tenderness and care about women, hence arises of discord between the parties.
How to cure emotional drought:
If we say that the emotional drought shared between the couple responsible for the treatment it is also not only by an agreement the couple rebuild their shattered them from the bonds of love and compassion, which is not impossible, but it can be achieved through a little determination and patience, and a lot of openness and sociability. There are some things that can be done to achieve coherence and emotional gratification between the couple,
including:
1.openness between spouses in all matters of their lives.
2.set aside some time for the pair away from the boys and the concerns and problems of everyday life for the family.
3.Ensuring emotional communication, which will not be completed until the full satisfaction of both spouses for their relationship private.
4.obey her husband, and the man was keen to bring happiness to his wife.
.renewal and away from the routine, and avoid boredom, man by nature tends to renewal.
